Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Friday, June 08, 2007
System Update Complete
We're thrilled to announce the arrival of our new baby - Annalise Ruth Olson arrived on Wednesday morning at 7:11 AM, weighing in at 7 pounds, 14 ounces and 19.5 inches long. Mom and baby are now home and doing well--we're looking forward to our first weekend together as a family! :)
Monday, June 04, 2007
More Random Cuteness
Here's Elizabeth doing her fake "mad face". Pretty cute--almost as adorable as her real one:
I only wish I could remember just what made her so mad here. . .
See, Kellie--Elizabeth doesn't need a real dog. . .look how happy she is with a stuffed one!
Hanging out with cousin Jordan at the Gateway fountain
Playing "dress-up"
After I offered to give it to her bunny instead, she finally relented and let me put on the dress I'd just finished making for her (which, upon closer inspection, I'd made with the fabric UPSIDE DOWN. Oops.)
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Update
Okay, Kel, I got the hint.
So, we're pretty well settled into our new house. And. . .fanfare please. . .our old house is officially DONE and on the market. Spread the word. :)
To celebrate the completion of the old house, Holly and Elizabeth tagged along the following week when Jared had to go to Las Vegas for a short conference. Elizabeth thought the Strip was just "beau'ful", especially the big MGM lion and the Excalibur castle. Here she is at one of the fountains in the Caesar's Palace mall. . .she was really bummed that Mom and Dad didn't have more change for her to throw in it.
We had fun splashing around the pool back at the hotel as well. . .
We're home now and staying very busy, getting projects done around the house and preparing for the arrival of "Tinkerbell Jesus", as Elizabeth calls our new baby. Jared and Holly are teaching Sunday School to the 12- and 13-year-olds in our new ward. They're really a fantastic bunch of kids, especially considering their age. :P Elizabeth is having fun at the new house--she LOVES to run around the backyard watering the dirt, exploring the bushes, chasing the neighbors' cat, etc. We recently found a tiny Elizabeth-sized bike at the D.I. . . .
After helping Daddy with some minor repairs, she got to try it out--she doesn't quite have the hang of pedaling yet, but she still loves to sit on it. When she feels the need for a little more speed, she just gets Daddy to take her for a ride in her wagon instead. . .
So, we're pretty well settled into our new house. And. . .fanfare please. . .our old house is officially DONE and on the market. Spread the word. :)
To celebrate the completion of the old house, Holly and Elizabeth tagged along the following week when Jared had to go to Las Vegas for a short conference. Elizabeth thought the Strip was just "beau'ful", especially the big MGM lion and the Excalibur castle. Here she is at one of the fountains in the Caesar's Palace mall. . .she was really bummed that Mom and Dad didn't have more change for her to throw in it.
We had fun splashing around the pool back at the hotel as well. . .
We're home now and staying very busy, getting projects done around the house and preparing for the arrival of "Tinkerbell Jesus", as Elizabeth calls our new baby. Jared and Holly are teaching Sunday School to the 12- and 13-year-olds in our new ward. They're really a fantastic bunch of kids, especially considering their age. :P Elizabeth is having fun at the new house--she LOVES to run around the backyard watering the dirt, exploring the bushes, chasing the neighbors' cat, etc. We recently found a tiny Elizabeth-sized bike at the D.I. . . .
After helping Daddy with some minor repairs, she got to try it out--she doesn't quite have the hang of pedaling yet, but she still loves to sit on it. When she feels the need for a little more speed, she just gets Daddy to take her for a ride in her wagon instead. . .
Tuesday, April 03, 2007
100 Posts!
I was going to make an entry about something else entirely, but the dashboard indicated that this will be our 100th post. . .Hey, maybe in a few more years Hallmark will come out with a card to commemorate such an occasion, eh? ;)
It's amazing how much Elizabeth has grown in the nearly-two years that I've been blogging. What has struck us time and again is that while so much has changed as she gets older, in many ways she is so very much the same little person we brought home from the hospital: eager, alert, passionate, self-assured, and just very much her own person. . .
It's also amazing to see our own growth as parents during the time Elizabeth has been in our family. I remember feeling discouraged when Elizabeth was a few months old and asking a friend with an older child when it would get easier. Her answer: "Oh, it never gets easier. It just gets different." Truer words were never spoken. Some phases have definitely been more challenging than others, but EVERY phase is one that needs to be appreciated and remembered, because they pass so quickly. I have to say that Jared is better at this than I have, but I'm learning. . .
So, yeah. Happy 100th Post. It's getting late--I decided to celebrate by perusing the archives, which has made me nostalgic. Now I think I'm going to finish the celebration by peeking in at my sleeping kiddo, kissing my husband, and going to bed. :)
It's amazing how much Elizabeth has grown in the nearly-two years that I've been blogging. What has struck us time and again is that while so much has changed as she gets older, in many ways she is so very much the same little person we brought home from the hospital: eager, alert, passionate, self-assured, and just very much her own person. . .
It's also amazing to see our own growth as parents during the time Elizabeth has been in our family. I remember feeling discouraged when Elizabeth was a few months old and asking a friend with an older child when it would get easier. Her answer: "Oh, it never gets easier. It just gets different." Truer words were never spoken. Some phases have definitely been more challenging than others, but EVERY phase is one that needs to be appreciated and remembered, because they pass so quickly. I have to say that Jared is better at this than I have, but I'm learning. . .
So, yeah. Happy 100th Post. It's getting late--I decided to celebrate by perusing the archives, which has made me nostalgic. Now I think I'm going to finish the celebration by peeking in at my sleeping kiddo, kissing my husband, and going to bed. :)
Saturday, March 24, 2007
Motherhood
If not for the photographs, I might have a hard time believing they ever existed. The pensive infant with the swipe of dark bangs and the black button eyes of a Raggedy Andy doll. The placid baby with the yellow ringlets and the high piping voice. The sturdy toddler with the lower lip that curled into an apostropheabove her chin. ALL MY BABIES are gone now.
I say this not in sorrow but in disbelief. I take great satisfaction in what I have today: three almost-adults, two taller than I am, one closing in fast. Three people who read the same books I do and have learned not to be afraid of disagreeing with me in their opinion of them, who sometimes tell vulgar jokes that make me laugh until I choke and cry, who need razor blades and shower gel and privacy, who want to keep their doors closed more than I like.
Who, miraculously, go to the bathroom, zip up their jackets and move food from plate to mouth all by themselves. Like the trick soap I bought for the bathroom with a rubber ducky at its center, the baby is buried deep within each, barely discernible except through the unreliable haze of the past.
Everything in all the books I once pored over is finished for me now.Penelope Leach., T. Berry Brazelton., Dr. Spock. The ones on sibling rivalry and sleeping through the night and early-childhood education, all grown obsolete.
Along with Goodnight Moon and Where the Wild Things Are, they are battered, spotted, well used. But I suspect that if you flipped the pages dust would rise like memories.
What those books taught me, finally, and what the women on the playground taught me, and the well-meaning relations -- what they taught me was that they couldn't really teach me very much at all.
Raising children is presented at first as a true-false test, then becomes multiple choice, until finally, far along, you realize that it is an endless essay. No one knows anything. One child responds well to positive reinforcement, another can be managed only with a stern voice and a timeout. One boy is toilet trained at 3, his brother at 4.
When my first child was born, parents were told to put baby to bed on his belly so that he would not choke on his own spit- up. By the time my last arrived, babies were put down on their backs because of research on sudden infant death syndrome. To a new parent this ever-shifting certainty is terrifying, and then soothing.
Eventually you must learn to trust yourself. Eventually the research will follow.
I remember 15 years ago poring over one of Dr. Brazelton's wonderful books on child development, in which he describes three different sorts of infants: average, quiet, and active. I was looking for a sub-quiet codicil for an 18-month-old who did not walk. Was there something wrong with his fat little legs? Was there something wrong with his tiny little mind? Was he developmentally delayed, physically challenged? Was I insane? Last year he went to China. Next year he goes to college. He can talk just fine. He can walk, too.
Every part of raising children is humbling, too. Believe me, mistakes were made. They have all been enshrined in the Remember-When-Mom-Did Hall of Fame. The outbursts, the temper tantrums, the bad language, mine, not theirs. The times the baby fell off the bed. The times I arrived late for preschool pickup. The nightmare sleepover. The horrible summer camp. The day when the youngest came barreling out of the classroom with a 98 on her geography test, and I responded, What did you get wrong? (She insisted I include that.) The time I ordered food at the McDonald's drive-through speaker and then droveaway without picking it up from the window. (They all insisted I include that.) I did not allow them to watch the Simpsons for the first two seasons.
What was I thinking?
But the biggest mistake I made is the one that most of us make while doing this. I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of the three of them sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages 6, 4 and 1. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less.
Even today I'm not sure what worked and what didn't, what was me and what was simply life. When they were very small, I suppose I thought someday they would become who they were because of what I'd done. Now I suspect they simply grew into their true selves because they demanded in a thousand ways that I back off and let them be.
The books said to be relaxed and I was often tense, matter-of-fact and I was sometimes over the top. And look how it all turned out. I wound up with the three people I like best in the world, who have done more than anyone to excavate my essential humanity. That's what the books never told me. I was bound and determined to learn from the experts.
It just took me a while to figure out who the experts were...
--Anna Quindlen
I say this not in sorrow but in disbelief. I take great satisfaction in what I have today: three almost-adults, two taller than I am, one closing in fast. Three people who read the same books I do and have learned not to be afraid of disagreeing with me in their opinion of them, who sometimes tell vulgar jokes that make me laugh until I choke and cry, who need razor blades and shower gel and privacy, who want to keep their doors closed more than I like.
Who, miraculously, go to the bathroom, zip up their jackets and move food from plate to mouth all by themselves. Like the trick soap I bought for the bathroom with a rubber ducky at its center, the baby is buried deep within each, barely discernible except through the unreliable haze of the past.
Everything in all the books I once pored over is finished for me now.Penelope Leach., T. Berry Brazelton., Dr. Spock. The ones on sibling rivalry and sleeping through the night and early-childhood education, all grown obsolete.
Along with Goodnight Moon and Where the Wild Things Are, they are battered, spotted, well used. But I suspect that if you flipped the pages dust would rise like memories.
What those books taught me, finally, and what the women on the playground taught me, and the well-meaning relations -- what they taught me was that they couldn't really teach me very much at all.
Raising children is presented at first as a true-false test, then becomes multiple choice, until finally, far along, you realize that it is an endless essay. No one knows anything. One child responds well to positive reinforcement, another can be managed only with a stern voice and a timeout. One boy is toilet trained at 3, his brother at 4.
When my first child was born, parents were told to put baby to bed on his belly so that he would not choke on his own spit- up. By the time my last arrived, babies were put down on their backs because of research on sudden infant death syndrome. To a new parent this ever-shifting certainty is terrifying, and then soothing.
Eventually you must learn to trust yourself. Eventually the research will follow.
I remember 15 years ago poring over one of Dr. Brazelton's wonderful books on child development, in which he describes three different sorts of infants: average, quiet, and active. I was looking for a sub-quiet codicil for an 18-month-old who did not walk. Was there something wrong with his fat little legs? Was there something wrong with his tiny little mind? Was he developmentally delayed, physically challenged? Was I insane? Last year he went to China. Next year he goes to college. He can talk just fine. He can walk, too.
Every part of raising children is humbling, too. Believe me, mistakes were made. They have all been enshrined in the Remember-When-Mom-Did Hall of Fame. The outbursts, the temper tantrums, the bad language, mine, not theirs. The times the baby fell off the bed. The times I arrived late for preschool pickup. The nightmare sleepover. The horrible summer camp. The day when the youngest came barreling out of the classroom with a 98 on her geography test, and I responded, What did you get wrong? (She insisted I include that.) The time I ordered food at the McDonald's drive-through speaker and then droveaway without picking it up from the window. (They all insisted I include that.) I did not allow them to watch the Simpsons for the first two seasons.
What was I thinking?
But the biggest mistake I made is the one that most of us make while doing this. I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of the three of them sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages 6, 4 and 1. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less.
Even today I'm not sure what worked and what didn't, what was me and what was simply life. When they were very small, I suppose I thought someday they would become who they were because of what I'd done. Now I suspect they simply grew into their true selves because they demanded in a thousand ways that I back off and let them be.
The books said to be relaxed and I was often tense, matter-of-fact and I was sometimes over the top. And look how it all turned out. I wound up with the three people I like best in the world, who have done more than anyone to excavate my essential humanity. That's what the books never told me. I was bound and determined to learn from the experts.
It just took me a while to figure out who the experts were...
--Anna Quindlen
Saturday, March 10, 2007
Upstairs
Apparently we picked the right weekend to move--it was the ONE day in about 2 weeks that it didn't snow! The Cruiser is parked in front of the attached garage. . .If you enter the house through the garage, you walk right into the kitchen:
If you walk through the kitchen, you'll find the hallway that leads to the bedrooms. . .and to one of my favorite things in the house--the built-in cupboards in the halls (though I do like that cute curly-haired kid quite a bit too)
Main bathroom. I'm too happy not having to schlep laundry up and down the stairs to comment on how odd it is having the washer and dryer in the bathroom. :)
Master bedroom. It seems like every time we move, our master bedroom gets a bit smaller. This time we also lost *gasp* a closet. We were spoiled in that our apartment and our previous house both had two closets in the master bedroom; now we have to learn to share. Or maybe I'll just make Jared store his clothes in the master bathroom shower.
There are two bedrooms across the hall from the master bedroom, for Elizabeth and New Baby:
Behind the kitchen is the living room. That's Jungle Book playing on the TV, in case you were curious--Elizabeth wanted me to take a picture of her watching the monkeys. . .
The stairway at the back of the living room leads to the basement---but we'll save that for another post. :)
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